Belief entails grasping sufficient information to comprehend or scrutinizing limited data to form a conviction. This process relies heavily on various factors, particularly an individual’s discernment to analyze, perceive, and trust. Consider, for instance, a man whose appearance implies poverty, yet claims circulate that he is wealthy. How does one accept such an assertion? The man in question seems impoverished, displaying no apparent signs of prosperity. In this scenario, how can one accurately deduce or recognize the truth? Perhaps the key lies in the substance of his statements and the wisdom that shapes his character. Therefore, assessing the wisdom of the ostensibly destitute man enables one to perceive truth and make a sound judgment as to wether he is truly wealthy.
These reflections preoccupied my mind as I pondered whether, had I existed 2000 years ago as a Jew during Jesus’ time on earth, I would have chosen to follow him. Would I have embraced his claim of being the son of God (Matthew 27:43) or, akin to the Pharisees, reacted with anger, accusing him of blasphemy when he asserted the power to forgive sins (Matthew 9:6)? What factors would have influenced my decision to believe in him? Could I have accurately discerned and not overlooked his presence on Earth? I don’t need to search extensively for an answer to this hypothetical question, as I can evaluate it using current circumstances. A more precise framing of the question would be: In today’s context when presented with opportunities for blessings, regardless of their outward appearance, would I possess the wisdom to recognize them and reap the benefits? Conversely, if confronted with something deceptive that appears positive but is, in reality, harmful and poses a threat to disrupt my life, would I be imprudent enough to allow it? The remainder of the article delves into the latter rhetorical question.
But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” – 1 Samuel 15:7
In our day-to-day experiences and social interactions, we consistently encounter situations that call for the exercise of judgment and the ability to discern individuals’ characters. This skill is vital for our overall well-being, given that we naturally seek relationships in various aspects of life such as romance, business, friendship, or stewardship. Consequently, it becomes crucial for us to make thoughtful choices about whom we allow into our lives. Relationships founded on trust and dignity take precedence, necessitating wisdom in our routine interactions to identify those who share these fundamental values. Many individuals may portray themselves as sincere, to gain favor or manipulate others for personal gain. Therefore, by engaging in careful conversations and assessments, a wise individual can discern and identify warning signs, empowering them to make well-informed decisions. Scriptural teachings emphasize that one’s speech reflects the abundance of the heart (Luke 6:45), providing a means for the discerning to evaluate whether a person’s heart bears positive or negative attributes.
Nonetheless, a significant challenge arises—no individual possesses enough wisdom to discern everyone, especially to figure out those who are wiser than himself (Jeremiah 12:5). It evolves into a strategic competition, akin to a game of chess, determining who can outsmart the other. Consider, for instance, a courtroom battle where a defendant surpasses the wisdom of the judge and prosecutor. Even if the defendant is guilty, they might successfully manipulate the jury or judge, undermining the prosecutor’s argument. This doesn’t suggest that the judge or jury lacks inherent intelligence; rather, in this specific instance, they face a defendant more astute than them all, preventing justice from prevailing. It will only take a judge possessing greater wisdom to thwart the wits and manipulations of evil.
Do not deceive yourselves. If any of you think you are wise by the standards of this age, you should become “fools” so that you may become wise. For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in God’s sight. As it is written: “He catches the wise in their craftiness”; and again, “The Lord knows that the thoughts of the wise are futile.”- 1 Corinthians 3:18-19
In every interaction, individuals grapple with the necessity of surpassing the wisdom of their counterparts to avoid being perceived as gullible. While one may perceive themselves as wise or adept at judging character based on personal abilities, such a self-assessment proves unwise. It’s imprudent to consider oneself impenetrable and wise by the world’s standards. True wisdom lies in acknowledging one’s folly in comparison to genuine wisdom in God. Recognizing this truth makes it imperative to align with God, who embodies unparalleled wisdom. God’s omniscience, understanding the hearts of all, establishes Him as the ultimate source of wisdom. To alleviate the pressure, there is no safer refuge than being in God and having Him within. Surrendering one’s will to God enables Him to guide paths and decisions, preventing disastrous choices in selecting a spouse, business partner, or steward. A positive relationship with God forms the bedrock for healthy relationships with fellow humans.
Conversely, a strained relationship with God leaves one vulnerable, as they are deaf to His warnings and unwilling to follow His will, leading to poor choices and potential heartache in various aspects of life. Therefore, seeking God’s counsel is essential to navigating relationships and making wise decisions. Life is a gift from God, and being able to enjoy it here on earth is God’s will for us. Achieving a life devoid of problems on Earth is feasible, not only in spiritual dimensions but also in our physical and natural surroundings. The crucial factor lies in our willingness to hear, believe, and heed the voice and guidance of the Lord, even in the smallest decisions. Trusting in His direction ensures we are never led astray or into difficulties (Psalms 91:11-12).